💍 Introduction: The Secret Mission of Every Surprise Proposal

You’ve found the person. You’ve planned the moment. Now there’s just one tiny detail left—the ring size.

If you're aiming for a surprise proposal, asking directly is out of the question. But don't worry, there are plenty of clever, tried-and-true ways to get the answer without spoiling the moment.

At Bijouterie Jamil, we’ve helped countless clients pull off surprise engagements, and we’re sharing our best insider strategies for getting that ring size just right.

🕵️‍♂️ 7 Clever Ways to Find Their Ring Size Without Them Knowing

1. Borrow a Ring They Already Wear

• Choose one they wear on their ring finger of the left hand, if possible.

• Bring it to your jeweler or trace it on a piece of paper.

• If it’s worn on a different finger, we can adjust accordingly.

💡 Pro tip: Take a photo of the ring next to a coin or ruler for reference.

2. Ask a Trusted Friend or Sibling

• A best friend or close sibling might already know—or can casually ask.

• This works especially well if your partner has talked about engagements with them.

🤫 Make sure they can keep a secret!

3. Sneak a Peek at Jewelry Boxes

• Look for ring boxes or organizers at home.

• Bring a ring in for sizing, or use a digital ring sizer app for a quick measurement.

4. Try It on Your Own Finger

• Put their ring on your finger and mark where it stops.

• We can use this as a rough guide to estimate their size.

✋ This method is surprisingly effective for basic sizing!

5. Use Soft Materials Like Soap or Wax

• Press one of their rings into a bar of soap or soft wax to capture the shape.

• Bring the imprint to the jeweler for sizing.

🎯 Old-school trick, but still works!

6. Check Their Online Orders (If You Share an Account)

• If they’ve bought rings online, check their past orders or saved sizes.

• Amazon, Etsy, or fashion sites often list sizes in order history.

7. Go for a Temporary Setting

• Choose a temporary ring setting in a common size (6–7 for women).

• After the proposal, return for a free resize or final design customization.

💍 At Bijouterie Jamil, we offer resizing and setting adjustments after the engagement.

💡 Tips for Success

• Aim slightly larger, not smaller—easier to resize down than up.

• If you're unsure, a resizable or open ring style may be an option.

• Keep all packaging, receipts, and guarantees for resizing.

• Work with a jeweler that offers post-proposal adjustments (like us!)

💬 FAQs

What’s the average ring size for women?

In Canada, it's typically size 6 to 7. For men, it's around size 9 to 10.

Can any ring be resized?

Most can—especially gold, platinum, and lab-grown settings. Some intricate designs or eternity bands may be harder to resize.

What if I get the size totally wrong?

No stress. We resize rings after proposals all the time, often within 1–2 business days.

❤️ Ready to Pop the Question? We’ll Help Make It Perfect

From ring selection to hidden sizing, we’ll walk you through the entire process privately, respectfully, and discreetly. Whether you’re planning a flash mob or an intimate dinner, we’re here to help you pull off the perfect surprise.

👉 Book your confidential consultation with Bijouterie Jamil and let’s plan a proposal to remember.